The ONLY 3 Things Men Notice When You Have Sex the First Time

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When you have sex for the first time with a new guy, it’s nothing short of exhilarating, and frankly, a little bit nerve-wracking. He’s never seen you ahem, naked before and you’re absolutely sure he’ll notice your cottage-cheese-in-a-trashbag ass or the fact that your right breast is slightly larger than the left, and well, maybe a little lopsided too. Here’s the good news: he’s not going to notice any of those things! He won’t notice your webbed toes, and he’s definitely not going to be counting to see whether you have a four pack or a six pack. There are really only three things he’s going to notice when getting busy:

1. Your Eyes

Young happy smiling couple together at bedroom

Guys love your eyes. In fact, it’s pretty much the first thing they notice about a woman, clothed or unclothed – but especially unclothed. Maybe it’s that dreamy, “come hither” look that gets them all hot and bothered, or perhaps it’s because the eyes really are the window to the soul. Either way, when you strip down, he’s going to be watching you watching him. Hot Sex Tip : Look your man square in the eyes during sex, and if you’re really brave, make eye contact with him to let him know something feels sooooo good, or when you have an orgasm. It will drive him absolutely wild!

2. Your Stellar Moves

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It’s every girl’s nightmare that a guy is going to be comparing their skills in the sack to an ex-girlfriend, and well, he kind of is. Don’t worry, he’s not critiquing who did it better – he just wants to see your moves! All he knows is what he’s had, and he’s waiting for you to do something totally different, and totally amazing.

It may seem like a lot of pressure when you put it that way, but it’s really not, because guys pretty much approve of any move that feels good. He just wants to see and experience your techniques! Hot Sex Tip : Don’t be afraid to break out the best moves in your repertoire. Show him all you got and watch him get weak in the knees.

3. How Confident You Are

Portrait of unhappy young couple in bedroom

One of the only other things men notice when they get down and dirty with a gal is how confident they are about what they have to offer. It doesn’t matter if she’s 120 lbs or 220 lbs, if she knows she’s beautiful and desirable, she’ll be beautiful and desirable to him. Guys want to have sex with women who aren’t too self-conscious to go for the no-holds-barred, kinky animal sex, not women who are so obsessed with their flaws that they won’t try new things. Hot Sex Tip: Make like Elsa and let it go during sex with your man! Stop worrying about your thighs, or your rolls, because he is not paying attention to them. Walk into the room and own it, like the gorgeous sex kitten you are. Show him your moves, look him in the eye and make sex nothing short of in-cred-ible. He’s going to eat it up!