Everyone fights; and every relationship is going to encounter a difficult time that will result in an argument. The important thing is to know if your fights are productive; are you able to resolve conflict in a way that leaves you both satisfied? Are your fighting styles compatible? Can you respect and forgive each other at the end of your fights?
Not every day is going to be an epic quest for adventure, but with the right guy even mundane tasks can feel special. Is your time together marked with a general malaise of “ordinary”, or do you feel like magic happens around you when you’re together no matter what it is you might be doing?
A great relationship should bring you joy. Life is far too short to be serious constantly, and you need to know that you’re going to be smiling on a regular basis with the one you love. Do you make each other laugh? Do you have fun together? How much of your time is spent smiling when you’re with him?
If you’ve got nothing to talk about, chances are you’re in the wrong relationship. It can mean that you don’t share mutual interests, or that you’re not challenging each other, or that you’re simply no longer interested in being together. Whatever the reason, if you enjoy talking with him, that’s a great sign that you’re in it to win it.
If your relationship stresses you out, that’s a big red flag that perhaps it’s not the right one for you. Your life is too hectic to be worried about whether your partner is going to cause waves with your vibe; you need someone you can turn to when the going gets tough (not make the going even tougher).